Archive for March, 2010

Prepare and Serve Dinner

Monday, March 29th, 2010

Prepare and Serve a Meal

  • Serve a meal at our new Intake and Access shelter for 30 – 40 people. The opportunity is weekly or monthly
  • Bring dinner precooked and ready to serve.

It’s a lot of fun! Volunteer your group, family, friends, school, church, or company for a great experience on serving others.

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One Family’s Story

Monday, March 29th, 2010

From solving family homelessness for over 10 years we have some amazing stories to share with you. Here is just one of the inspirational stories.

Parents Bring their Family Back Together

David and I arrived at Solutions for Change with our 5 year-old daughter in April 2009. We had been renting a 2-bedroom apartment, but then David lost his job and we couldn’t afford the rent. I worked as well, but barely made enough money to pay utilities. Most of the time we relied on Soup Kitchens for our meals. Luckily I got a tax return and was able to pay back rent. Unfortunately, the eviction process took place anyway.

So we had no money and no place to live. We found Solutions and they offered us a place to live and restructure our lives. The most important thing to me was that we would all be together. We have been at Solutions for almost a year now. David is working full time and I am working part time as I am still looking for a better job.

We have learned how to save money, how to be better parents and how to be part of a community. We have a history of drug and alcohol abuse and with the help of Solutions we are now working on the 12 step program with the guidance of a sponsor. Our daughter is now in kindergarten and is in the honor roll. Our 18-year-old daughter has also rejoined the family. She is a senior in high school and we look forward to having the whole family happy, healthy and all together at her high school graduation.

- Shannon and David

Our 1,000 Day Campaign Begins April 22nd!

Monday, March 29th, 2010

fowh_logo_finalFinding Our Way Home, an initiative to solve family homelessness will be launched on April 22nd! April 22nd will mark day 1 of this 1,000 Day Initiative led by Solutions for Change. Leaders from all sectors of the community here in San Diego have joined together in order to put forth this initiative which will change our communities and futures for our children. The 1,000 day goal will be to equip 200 homeless families with the skills, knowledge and resources they need to fight their way back… to a home, to a community and to dignity.

We invite you to come a long with us on this 1,000 day initiative in order to witness the incredible transformations which will change futures for our children – for today, tomorrow and forever!

Our Marathon Supporter

Monday, March 29th, 2010

Slow & Steady…With Walk Breaks

smmarch25Last weekend called for a 21-mile run on the first day of Spring. Taking advantage of the beautiful weather, I headed out with my friend Gail to start my run at Torrey Pines. The day was picturesque, and I soaked in every minute of a 4 hour and 20 minute run. The people who know me now are not surprised that I spent a good portion of my Sunday running outside, but I’ll let you in on a little secret…several years ago I couldn’t run for 5 minutes, let alone 260 minutes. So how did I do it?

It started with running just a single mile. I told myself that I didn’t have to run the entire time, I only had to make it a mile. So I jogged (very) slowly and took walk breaks every 2 minutes until I reached my goal. I’m not sure how long it took me, but that’s not important because distance, not time, was my goal. I wanted to cover one mile, and that’s what I did.

Many people think they won’t like running because they have a preconceived notion that it’s all about going fast and running the entire time with no breaks. I once felt the same way. I hated running because I had flat feet that slowed me down, and I hated the burn in my throat and throbbing in my head when I ran too fast. As with anything in life, you have to figure out what works for you. Running fast didn’t work for me. Turns out I’m really good at running slowly and taking short walk breaks along the way. After I knew I could do a mile, I added half of a mile to my distance every week, still running slowly and taking those walk breaks. Once I reached 6 miles, my next goal was to run a half-marathon.

When that day came, I stood at the starting line and looked around. It was one of the most motivating sights I have ever taken in. I saw old runners, young runners, overweight runners. I saw runners with just one leg, runners with no legs—only prosthetics, and I saw blind runners. We were all in it together, and our common goal of finishing this race had connected us all.

I’m not going to lie: That half marathon was one of the hardest things I’d ever done. But I did it, and believe it or not, the very next day I registered for a full marathon.

I treated it the same way I had treated that first mile and every mile since. I added mileage each week, still taking walk breaks. On May 25, 2009, I ran all 26.2 miles of the San Diego Rock N’ Roll Marathon, and I loved every minute of it. I knew then that I was hooked on marathons, but I needed a new goal, a new challenge.

Two months later, I found it. Deeply inspired after meeting Chris Megison and visiting Solutions for Change, I returned to my old list of goals and dreams. I realized that I could combine my love of running and my desire to help others by dedicating my next marathon to raising money in support of Solutions for Change.

When I run the Big Sur Marathon next month, each mile will mean more to me than any mile I have run before. The generosity that my friends, family, and the Solutions staff have put towards my fundraising efforts has been exceptional. If you’re interested, there’s still time left to donate. Check out my fundraising page here http://www.firstgiving.com/samanthasarles.

Until next time,

Sam

April 28, 2010 1st Annual HomeReach.com “One Round. One Cause.” Golf Tournament

Monday, March 29th, 2010

On April 28, 2010 at Maderas Golf Club, the 1st Annual HomeReach.com “One Round. One Cause.” Golf Tournament will be held in order to increase awareness and funds for Solutions for Change. We give great thanks to The MEYROW Foundation and HomeReach.com for putting on this fantastic event to help us continue to Solve Family Homelessness by providing Access to PERMANENT Solutions to homeless families. We hope to see you at Maderas! Click here to Register for the tournament.

Finding Our Way Home

Monday, March 29th, 2010

fowh_logo_finalOn April 22, Solutions for Change will launch its biggest and boldest solution initiative ever – A 1,000 day communitywide challenge to solve family homelessness for over 400 kids. Called Finding Our Way Home, the 1,000 day goal will be to equip 200 homeless families with the skills, knowledge and resources they need to fight their way back…to a home, to a community and to dignity.

Be Part of the Change – for Today, Tomorrow and Forever.

A Day in the Park

Monday, March 29th, 2010

Vista, CA — April 7, 2007 — The Kiwanis Club of Solutions for Change is bringing the spirit of service alive in Vista, CA by hosting A Day in the Park on April 7, 2007 at Brengle Terrace Park for the families currently housed at Solutions for Change, and will include sports activities and a scavenger hunt.

These activities are being held as part of Kiwanis One Day, a global volunteer action day uniting the entire Kiwanis family, including Kiwanis, Circle K, Key Club, Builder’s Club, Atkion Club, K-Kids and Kiwanis Junior. On this day, club volunteers of Kiwanis Club of Solutions for Change are expected to join nearly 600,000 volunteers around the world in devoting a few hours to hands-on volunteer service. Kiwanis expects that Kiwanis One Day will contribute nearly one million service hours around the world in just one day.

“We are proud to join our fellow Kiwanis family members around the globe to participate in Kiwanis One Day,” said Tammy Megison, President. “The energy, commitment and camaraderie surrounding this single day make the experience of hands-on service even more gratifying for our members as they make an immediate, measurable impact on the North County community.”

Kiwanis One Day (“One Way, One Day, One K”) was designated by Kiwanis International in order to unite all youth and adult members from different parts of the Kiwanis family together in service. For more information on the Kiwanis Club of Solutions for Change’s service activities, please contact Christine Palmer at 760-941-6545 orchristine@solutionsforchange.org. For more information about Kiwanis of Solutions for Change, please visit www.solutionsforchange.org/khome.html

About Kiwanis
Founded in 1915, Kiwanis is a global organization of volunteers dedicated to changing the world one child and one community at a time. Kiwanis International and its service leadership programs for young people, including Circle K, Key Club, Key Leader, Builders Club, K-Kids, Kiwanis Junior and Aktion Club dedicate more than 19 million volunteer hours and invest US$100 million to strengthen communities and serve children annually. The Kiwanis International family comprises 600,000 adult and youth members and 15,000 clubs in 90 countries and geographic areas. Kiwanis members make their mark by responding to the needs of their communities and pooling their resources to address worldwide issues. Globally, Kiwanis International has focused humanitarian efforts on eliminating iodine deficiency disorders (IDD), through the Worldwide Service Project, a US$75 million campaign in partnership with UNICEF, which began in 1994. For more information about Kiwanis International, please visit www.kiwanis.org.

North County Homelessness: Regional Reactions vs. Regional Solutions

Monday, March 29th, 2010

Published Sunday, May 27, 2007: North County Times

What does solving homelessness for a community look like? Community homelessness is a complex social problem, but it can be solved with the right approach. We should not gauge our success based on how many social service programs a community can produce, or how many beds can be created, but rather how those programs or beds are being used to actually solve the causative factors of homelessness.

It should be about solving the homeless problem, shouldn’t it? But, is it being solved in North County? Or, is there a system, a default system perhaps, which only manages the symptoms of the problem, tries to contain homelessness, and simply reacts to homelessness?

I recently posed a question to my executive director peers from other local human service agencies that caused some spirited discussion. Here was the question: Collectively, as a North County region, and as a community of non profits dealing with the homeless, have we been effective in solving the homeless problem? If not, why?

I believe we have not been collectively effective. We are not solving the homeless problem for North County. Sure, as independent organizations, we can and we do solve homelessness for people. But, open the paper on any given day and you can read about what I mean when I say regional reactions vs. regional solutions. Together, as a community, we aren’t solving it.

Why aren’t we solving it? Perhaps one of the top reasons is because outdated federal policies and funding strategies have ineffectively filtered down from above and into our North County service providers. In turn, those agencies have done what they were supposed to do, yet the problem still exists.

Homeless service providers in San Diego County have received hundreds of millions of dollars in federal and state funding over the past two decades to “help” the homeless.

That funding has created dozens of programs. Services within those programs were then delivered to the homeless. This funding was given to the non profits for them to try and address the problems of homelessness, yet it only seems to have largely contained the problem. Twenty years worth of funding based on an input-driven model instead of an outcome-driven model has not solved the problem. Is that an acceptable model for our community?

What do I mean by inputs as opposed to outcomes? Inputs are the number of beds filled, meals provided, service units given, etc. A heavier weight must be placed on outcomes achieved: people equipped to maintain their own housing, people equipped to feed themselves, income increased by “X” number of dollars, amount of money in savings, college courses completed, causative factors eliminated or greatly reduced (relapse-free, mental health episodes diminished, etc.). The real proof in solving community homelessness should ultimately be measured in the eye of the public. Can we stroll through our parks or walk into our supermarket without being aggressively panhandled? Can we drive through town without seeing groups of homeless people huddled in our public places? If not, are we really solving the problem?

If we truly want to solve community homelessness, we must stop simply managing the symptoms of the underlying problems that cause homelessness. The problems that come from active addiction, untreated mental illness, unemployment, lack of education, and poverty cannot be addressed with the same old reactive containment model. We end up stuck in a default, automatic pilot containment mode, or disguising faulty models with new language, like “ten-year plans”, and “strength-based” systems.

We can dress it up all you want, but after another 10 years and another 20 billion dollars, we’ll still be scratching our heads. North County must stop calling what we’ve been doing for the homeless a “good” model which we are now going to try and make “better”. We must decide that we are now going to completely scrap that faulty model and rebuild from new core values based on a model of accountability that will result in new, congruent practices with real outcomes.

Enabling hurts the homeless person. When a community stops enabling, many homeless will stop being homeless.

Yes, feed the hungry. Yes, shelter the homeless. But, do so in conjunction with a solid plan, a real plan that includes a real partnership based on mutually agreed upon accountability structures with mutual goals and objectives that will help them solve the problems that have contributed to their homelessness. That is real compassion. That is real love. Only then will North County truly solve their homeless problem. Until then, it’s more of the same ol’, same ol’.

Chris Megison
President and Executive Director
North County Solutions for Change
www.SolutionsForChange.org

Homeless Agency Gets a Lifeline from Cities

Monday, March 29th, 2010

By CRAIG TENBROECK – Staff Writer
Published Wednesday, January 7, 2009: North County Times

VISTA — Several local cities have agreed to give homeless services agency North County Solutions for Change thousands of dollars in emergency funding to help cover a budget shortfall.

Solutions requested the money last month, saying private sector donations had dried up in the slumping economy. San Marcos, Vista and Carlsbad will chip in a combined $86,000. Oceanside’s City Council will consider adding $40,000 later this month.

“We’re talking really about a crisis situation with homeless families that should be viewed by each city as very top priority,” said Chris Megison, Solutions’ executive director, on Wednesday. “Thankfully, so far, almost all of them have.”

Based in Vista, Solutions for Change assists families with children at its 120-bed family center on West California Avenue and at a 40-bed intake center on East Vista Way. Both buildings are at capacity, Megison said.

The organization’s annual budget is around $1 million. Megison said $200,000 in revenue that was expected to come from the private sector didn’t come through in 2008.

Solutions for Change isn’t the only organization feeling the economic pinch. A national survey of more than 2,700 nonprofits last October reported that 35 percent had seen contributions decrease in 2008.

In his funding request, Megison asked each North County city for a different amount, based on the number of homeless families from those cities that were enrolled in Solutions’ program.

San Marcos, Carlsbad and Vista dipped into various funding pots and chipped in $21,000, $25,000 and $40,000, respectively.

Oceanside already gives Solutions $20,000 per year, while Vista gives $15,000 to $20,000 and Carlsbad gives $5,000.

When the emergency request came in, San Marcos already had money set aside for homeless winter support, said Karl Schwarm, director of housing and neighborhood services for San Marcos. Vista and Carlsbad used money from housing funds.

Megison said he asked Escondido for $35,000, but it “doesn’t look like they’re going to give us any money.”

Jerry Van Leeuwen, that city’s director of community services, said the city just doesn’t have the resources right now.

Carlsbad Mayor Bud Lewis said the city’s contribution may open the door to other nonprofit funding requests, but he isn’t concerned.

“We could always say no,” Lewis said.

Making up the rest of Solutions’ deficit will probably require appeals “to various other public and private sources,” Megison said.

The agency has laid off one employee in recent months and reduced hours for three others.

“The next thing we would have to do is actually cut beds, and that’s unacceptable,” Megison said. “We can’t cut beds right now.”

The Running Was Home. What to do?

Monday, March 29th, 2010

My name is April and I grew up in a single family household. My mother raised my brothers and I in Northern California. I wanted to change my scenery and lived with my father in Texas. I started using drugs when I was 13 years old. I was always running away staying at other people’s houses where I could use drugs. I brought drugs to school one day and was busted and was put in juvenile hall and put on probation. I was in and out of juvenile hall and I was in a boot camp for 6 months and this lasted until I was 18 years old. When I was 18 I was off juvenile probation and then I got myself in some serious trouble and was in jail for felony credit card abuse. I bailed out and stayed at a homeless shelter in Texas. I found a place that would pay for a bus ticket for me to leave if someone on the other end of where I was going would except me. I called my Mom  and she let me come to her house in Oceanside, California. My mother then found out I was on the run in Texas and took me to the police station. It took several weeks but my charges were dropped. I was very lucky for this. It was only a few months until I started using drugs here in California. I really got my self around the wrong crowd and I was put on probation again and did several months in jail. I found myself in and out of jail and my probation reinstated for the next couple of years. After a couple of years I found a man who was in his addiction ( heroin ) and me in my addiction ( crystal meth ) and we ended up getting married. The marriage became a Boney and Clyde type of marriage were we were both in and out of jail all the time.

Finally, we decided to move out of the country and get a place in Mexico. Our addiction only got worse. It was an abusive relationship; I was very codependent as I knew nothing about having a life. All I knew was he was my comfort and I only knew the life style I was living. I would leave him and come back to the states where I would commit crimes to feed my addiction and keep a roof over my head. When I finally got caught I would call my husband and he would bail me out. I would do well for a minute and then I went on the run for a year and a half and in that time I was in Mexico. Life was not good; I was always looking over my shoulder. I felt that I had no where to run as it was either stay in this relationship or spend 5 years in prison.

Eventually, I was crossing the border and I got caught. I was looking at 5 years in prison. My husband got a lawyer and my chargers were lowered to a smaller sentence time. I did 3 months in jail and my probation was reinstated again. I was lucky once again. When I got out I went back to my home in Mexico and I was doing really well because I knew I had to report to probation soon. Well in that month I found out that I was pregnant. So when I went to probation they told me I can no longer live in Mexico that I had to report twice a week. So I thought I could get past this by giving the probation a address where I told them I was living, little did I know they went there and found out I was not living there. So they told me this is my last chance and they want me here in the United States.

So I told them to put me somewhere and they gave me a number to lifeline. Lifeline referred me to a couple of places and the last place I went to was Solutions for Change. I remember sitting there thinking well if this place does not take me I am going on the run. Well they accepted me. When I came into the Solutions for Change Intake and Access Center, I was scared not knowing what was going to happen with me let alone my marriage. Probation told me once I had the baby I could go back home to Mexico. So that was my plan.

While being at Solutions for Change I fought everything they asked me to do which only made it harder for me to accept my situation. My marriage was not going so well because he was still using and here I was in a recovery university and he can do whatever he wanted. As time went on my marriage started falling apart. I had nothing, but to rely on this program now. So I said I am going to give it my best shot. I started helping more, I accepted my situation and I surrendered everything and let Solutions for Change show me a new life.

I had my son in December of 2007. I was in the Solutions apartment then and there was no looking back. I filed for divorce from my husband and stayed with Solutions for Change. I have been clean from drugs for 3 years now and I am terminated from probation in May of 2010. Solutions has given me a second chance in life. I am now with the Solutions University in their graduated housing and I have a one bedroom home with a fence and yard with my son who is now 2. I am so thankful to Solutions for accepting me. I know a life I have had never known before and I love it. I am 1 test away from my G.E.D. I am a wonderful mother and great person inside and out. I have been given tools to help me over come my codependency issues as well as my addiction. I am forever grateful to Solutions for Change who has shown me a new way of life and to my son who saved my life.

- April